I read the status update of a friend on facebook, which states “ the dreams of a man and the smile of a woman can do anything in the world.”
Dreams of a man can indeed work wonders. But the magic tool of a woman is not her smile. It’s the tears!
In every argument, every fight, every simple discussion in which we feel that we’re losing the debate, we tend to cry. A howling cry or simple sobs, no matter what path the tears take! Once they are out there on our cute faces, BAM, we’re back in the game!
It doesn’t really matter if the man is logically correct. He stops arguing and then somehow, what was supposed to be a big fight ends up being a wooing and pampering ritual in order to get his lady love to smile!
Their practicality is no match for a woman in tears!
Why we cry?
For power ! For regaining the control we feel we are losing!
Who says only men have huge egos? Women have much worse ego hassles. Especially in relationships.
We are a manipulative species, and tears are our weapons of mass destruction. They are so charming that they can make the strongest of men melt. They are so overbearing that they can mould the situation completely in the woman’s favor. And they are so subtle that they don’t seem manipulative at all.
The dreams of a man and the smile of a woman may or may not be able to do anything in the world, but the tears of a woman can surely move mountains !
Image Source : WordPress Free Photo Library provided by Pexels